I don’t know a whole lot about kids; I don’t have any of my own. I know about as much as any single, 30-year-old man does which is not a lot. Everything I know about children I’ve learned from working with them at church. I’ve spent many Sundays with 2, 3, and 4-year-olds. I’ve come to the conclusion that kids are pretty cool little creatures. And as we all know, they say the darndest things.
Not long ago, I was by myself in the 2’s. Usually the kids are pretty good about playing on their own, and I can give one-on-one time. But that morning, everybody needed something from me. I was sitting at the table trying to help one kid with a puzzle and talking to somebody else. I thought I heard little Elizabeth say something to me, but I asked her to repeat it. She looked at me with her adorable face and said, ‘You be the queen, I’ll be the princess.’ I had to try really hard not to laugh, and I just said, ‘Okay.’
Throughout the Bible we see God’s great love for children. Time and again we read that we are to care for the orphans and widows. In Deuteronomy and Psalms He executes justice on their behalf. In Psalm 68 David sings that God is the father of the fatherless, the protector of widows. He proclaims that God sets the lonely in families. Isaiah insists that it is our responsibility to ensure justice for orphans and to plead the widow’s cause. Proverbs 31 declares that we are to speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves. James says that real religion is lived by those who look after orphans and widows. Do you see the common theme? The repetition must mean something; perhaps that we are to pay attention.
When the disciples came to Jesus to ask who is the greatest in Heaven, Christ called a little child over and had him stand among them. He told them that anyone who welcomes a little child in His name…welcomes Him. Have you ever asked yourself how you would treat someone if you were talking to Jesus? Here He says you are. When we respond to a child, we are responding to Christ. He goes on in Matthew 18 to warn them that anyone who causes a child who believes in Him to sin will wish they had been drowned in the sea. That tells me we have a responsibility to teach our kids about Christ.
In Arkansas there are more than 4,100 children in foster care. Sadly, there are fewer than 1,000 families to care for them. Nearly 520 of those kids have had their parental rights terminat--meaning they will not ever be going home. Now, they are left to hope that someone will adopt them. As they age that hope begins to fade. Most people want the cute, innocent babies, not an older kid with behavioral problems from their previous life and years in the state’s system. Other children have physical or developmental disabilities that many people don’t want to take on. Then, there are siblings who are desperate to stay together, and that makes it more difficult to find them a home.
There is much more to the problem. Recent numbers show that Arkansas has the highest number of hungry children of any state. Many of these kids don’t know where their next meal will come from. One social worker told me that she’s had kids who will eat until they are sick when they are first placed in foster care. They are afraid that there won’t be anything left later. Many of them are hoarders. They will hide food in their clothes at the table so they can stash it somewhere safe.
Ironically, Arkansas also has the highest number of obese people in the union. Clearly, most of us are not doing without. How much food do you throw away each day? We have plenty and yet are failing to give it away. I think we will answer for that one day.
Worldwide more than 5 million children die of hunger-related causes each year according to World Vision. That’s a child every seven seconds. Add to that the fact that 145 million children are malnourished. The number of global orphans is more difficult to define. Many children live on the streets and go unaccounted for. Others come and go from the orphanages. Some countries simply don’t have a system to record the numbers. What we do know is that is in the millions. Estimates range anywhere from 143 to 210 million. While those numbers aren’t even close, we do know this: while the need is great, our God is greater. Those numbers may seem overwhelming and it’s tempting to do nothing. So focus on this: ONE child is waiting for you to do SOMETHING.
What will happen when we begin to see people with the eyes’ of Christ? He doesn’t see them as less than Himself. He simply sees the need. A friend of mine once told me, if you see a need and can meet it, then you are supposed to because someone else may not. We must stop turning a blind eye to the blind. We must stop pretending that we are deaf and do not hear. The need is here. It is impossible to ignore, yet somehow we manage to clear our conscience of conviction.
The word religion is used less than a half dozen times in the entire New Testament. Its translation is the outward practice of serving a god. In James 1:27 it is used to mean worship. 27Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world. Caring for those in need is considered worship. Here we learn that pure religion is practicing God’s word. Later, in Chapter two James declares that a man’s faith is useless without works. We can’t just SPEAK the love of Christ…we must SERVE others. We have to do something.
14What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? 15 If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, 16 and one of you says to them, "Go in peace, be warmed and filled," without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? 17So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.
In Matthew 25 we find God readying Himself to judge the Gentiles who have lived through the tribulation. He separates them as sheep from goats according to how they treated the brethren: the Jews.
34"Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.' 37"Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?'
One of the things I love most about this section of Scripture is the response from the righteous. It’s as though they have no idea what He’s talking about. They did what they did because they loved Him. It was a natural, spontaneous response to the needs that they could see. They loved Christ, and therefore they loved people. Their acts of kindness were not out of guilt; nor were they forced. The comparison that the King makes is astounding! “As you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me…” Jesus is saying, they are Me! That’s pretty powerful.
The question to me is who are the least of these today? I can’t help but believe that they are the children of Arkansas…the children of the United States…the children of the world. They are the ones too weak to defend themselves. Justice must be won on their behalf. They must have someone to speak for them for their voice alone is not enough. We must feed and clothe them; we must take them into our homes as our own.
I well remember standing in the gallery of the Arkansas House of Representatives as Governor Mike Beebe gave his state of the state address last year. The governor told legislators that he wanted to see additional funding for the Department of Children and family services, and then he denounced the voters’ decision to prevent unwed foster parents from living together. Many have called it the gay adoption ban. I remember being offended by what he had to say, yet that was quickly replaced by conviction. Here is the challenge that Governor Beebe issued to the people of our state:
“I was disappointed when voters passed an initiated act last November limiting the number of Arkansans who may qualify to become foster and adoptive parents. Before Act 1, we already had three times more foster children than we had qualified homes available. Now our ability to place these children is further impeded. It is imperative for those who supported shrinking the pool of potential foster parents to realize that the number of young and vulnerable Arkansans needing foster care will only continue to grow, and action must now follow their words. More than ever, we need Arkansas families to open their hearts and their homes to give these children the chance to grow up in safety and security, with devoted families who can raise them with care and compassion.”
I was stunned. What I realized is that he was right. If we as Christians are going to prevent others from caring for these children, then we must step up and do it. It is our responsibility as the church. We cannot tell others that they cannot provide for these kids, yet fail to do so ourselves.
Showing up to church is no longer enough. It never was. Christ charged us in the Great Commission to go into the world and make disciples of all nations…not to come and simply sit in the safe, comfortable walls of the church. What better way for us to share the love of Christ than to first meet people’s physical needs? Time after time we see Jesus tending to the hurting which then led to belief. What better opportunity for us to share the gospel than by caring for children who have been abandoned? Not only are we showing them the love of Christ, the world is seeing our witness.
These children need to be fed, clothed, and have a place to call home. They need moms and dads who will love them and teach them about Jesus. We can start right here at home. Some of you have the love, time, and financial resources to adopt. Many people already have children and choose to add to their family. Some have already raised their kids. The thing is, you don’t have to start over with those 2 AM feedings. There are many teens who are waiting. Hundreds “age out” of foster care each year without permanent parents. Maybe, you can’t commit to adoption but you still feel called to minister to these kids. As I’ve said, there are fewer than a thousand foster parents for more than four thousand children in the state. You get to choose what child or children are placed in your home. You have the say in their age, challenges, and gender. Financially, the state pays foster parents a stipend each month for the children’s care. They also pay day care costs. Money should not keep you from opening up your home if that is what God is calling you to do.
International adoption is also another option. Steven Curtis Chapman may best be known as a pioneer in contemporary Christian music. But he and his wife Mary Beth have become adoption advocates. The have now adopted three little girls from China and formed a non-profit called Shaohannah’s Hope to help other families. As you may know, China has a strict one child per family policy. Many want a boy to carry on the family name and little girls are discarded like trash. The continent of Asia has the greatest number of orphans. Africa’s aids crisis has left many children to fend for themselves.
Backpacks For Kids is a phenomenal program for hungry children here in our area. Many children rely on the two meals they get at school. Those may be the only times they know they will eat. Unfortunately, that only covers five days of the week. The program provides the kids with food for the weekend. Every Friday, teachers make sure the kids’ bags are packed.
One story goes that a counselor had finished her usual Friday distribution when she realized she had one bag left over. The woman thought back through all of the backpack kids and was certain that all of them had been at school that day. Then she realized it was Amy who was missing. She thought maybe the girl had gone home sick and she just didn’t know it. On her way to her car she heard a child crying. It was Amy. When she asked what was wrong Amy told her that she had forgotten her backpack that day and didn’t have anything for her to put the food in for the weekend. The little girl thought she was going to have to do without. The counselor took her by the hand and found her a loaner backpack.
Other organizations like World Vision and Compassion International are feeding children on a global scale. Sponsoring a child through them provides food, clothing, and education. They are able to do what we cannot. Not only do they meet the children’s physical needs, they also teach them about Jesus. How amazing is that we can love kids from a world away?
Our initial reaction is to write a check. Here in America we like to throw money at the problem. It keeps us from having to get dirty. It requires very little from us. For some of you, that is all you can do, and it may be a financial sacrifice. For others, maybe that is all that is asked of you. Yet, I think for the majority of us God requires much more. We need to get to work.
If this blog sounds like my own personal agenda, it probably is. But I also believe that it is God's. Caring for orphans and widows is not a calling; it is a command. Whether we are able to adopt a child, serve as foster parents, sponsor a child through a Christian organization, give to local charities, or volunteer, we need to respond now. Find your place. Remember, if you see a need and you can meet it, then you are called to do it. Don’t wait.
These children have seen the worst that humanity has to offer. You and I have the best that God can give. It is not our responsibility to save the world. Christ has already done that. However, we are commanded to care for the least of these.
